Follow the links below to learn more about IPS’ policies and procedures regarding sexual misconduct, dating violence, stalking and retaliation. If warranted, the Title IX team will conduct an investigation into the matter. This process, as well as how it is determined whether an investigation will take place, can be found in these policies. Also within these documents, you can find important definitions and resources.
Student & Families
If your friend has experienced sexual misconduct, dating violence or stalking, she/he may not be able to or ready to officially report it, but you can still help. Here are some helpful tips to keep in mind when talking to a friend about their experience:
- DON’T decide what’s best for them. When someone is abused or violated, they often feel victimized and need time to decide what to do.
- DON’T judge them or doubt their story. If a friend is confiding in you about being assaulted or harmed, it is important to not victim blame. For example, don’t say things like, “I told you to break up with him. Why didn’t you listen?”
- DON’T minimize what happened. Sometimes in an effort to make someone feel better, it’s easy to try and say that they will feel better soon or that it’s “no big deal.” These statements may make them feel bad about certain feelings they are having.
- DO let them know they are believed and supported. It is very common for victims of abuse to think that nobody will believe them. If they are confiding in you, they trust that you will be supportive.
- DO ask what they need. People cope and respond differently to being abused. Some like to talk about their feelings. Others like to be alone. Don’t assume you know what they may want or need.
- DO encourage them to seek help. It can be scary to tell an adult or the police about what happened. Remind them that there are people at school who can help. Also, it is very important to encourage them to seek medical help after an assault.
- DO continue to be supportive. After the initial shock of what happened, it can be easy to assume they are ok. Be sure to check in on them even if they seem to be “back to normal.”
- DO take care of yourself. It can be difficult and overwhelming to be present for a friend in need. Remember to take care of yourself and seek out help if needed.
Name of Organization
Domestic Violence Network
Lindsay Stawick email@example.com
Prevention education, information on resources, and youth advocacy & empowerment programs.
The Julian Center
2011 N Meridian St, Indianapolis IN 46202
24 Hour Crisis Line: 317-920-9320
*Rape Crisis Center*
Advocacy, support, and case management
Indiana Youth Group
3733 N. Meridian Street
Indianapolis, IN 46208
The activity center is open Wednesday & Thursday 3 – 9 pm & Friday 3 – 11pm.
The activity center serves as a safe and confidential environment for LGBTQ youth and straight allies ages 12 – 20 to hang out and be themselves.
Programs include sexual health education & suicide prevention education, various support groups, case management, parent support & education.
Students may drop in or you may refer them by calling to speak with a staff member.
Reach for Youth
3505 N. Washington Blvd.
Indianapolis, IN 46205
Marion Co. Helpline: 317-926-4357
Marion Co. Crisis & Suicide Hotline: 317-251-7575
Behavioral health counseling and sexual health services for youth and family
The Legacy House
2505 N Arlington Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46218
Trauma counseling and advocacy to victims of abuse or violence
615 N Alabama St STE 320
Indianapolis, IN 46204
*Rape Crisis Center*
Support groups for teen survivors of sexual assault
Latino Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence https://www.indianalatinocoalition.org/
300 E Fall Creek Parkway N Dr, STE 200, Indianapolis, IN 46205
Legal advocacy, support, information/referral.
Indiana Center for Children and Families
1431 N Delaware St, Indianapolis, IN 46202
Assessment, case management, counseling, and therapeutic services for children, adolescents, and families.
Connection to ANY human service. For example, basic needs (food, shelter, heat, etc.), legal assistance, mental health needs, etc.
Name of Organization
Love Is Respect
Text: loveis to 22522
Live chat on website
Spanish speaking advocates available
Support line to chat/ask questions about relationships or to be referred to local service provider.
An advocate is available 24/7. Website has relevant content regarding all aspects of relationships and dating suitable for teachers, school staff, parents, and teens.
RAINN National Network
Live chat on website
Rape, Abuse, and Incest
Support line for advice, information, or referral to local service provider.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Live chat on website
Confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources and best practices for professionals
Firefly Children & Family Alliance
3801 North Temple Avenue | Indianapolis, Indiana, 46205
Child Abuse Prevention
Home Based Services
Indiana Prevention of Youth Abuse & Suicide
4607 E 106th Street
Carmel, IN 46033
Phone – 317-759-8008
Provides evidence-based programming to educate youth and adults in preventing, recognizing, and reacting appropriately to mental, physical and sexual abuse. Our suicide prevention programming helps identify youth at risk for suicide, providing immediate resources for those who need help, and saving lives
While there is no way to completely eliminate the possibility of dating violence or sexual assault, there are ways to help protect yourself and others to reduce the risk.
The goal at IPS is to make reporting sexual misconduct, dating violence, stalking or retaliation as easy and comfortable as possible.
We have several options for students and/or guardians:
- You can report directly to the Title IX Coordinator, Kim Kennedy, at 317-226-4644 or firstname.lastname@example.org.
- You can call IPS Police Department at 317-226-4633.
- You can tell a Principal, Social Worker, Counselor, Teen Dating Advocate or any other school employee, either verbally or in writing. All employees at IPS are “mandatory reporters,” which means that all employees are required to report these instances to the Title IX Coordinator, and in some cases, the Department of Child Protective Services.
If You Are a Student Who Has Experienced Sexual Misconduct, Dating Violence, Stalking or Harassment
Call 9-1-1 or the IPS Police Department @ 317-226-4633 If you are in danger or need immediate medical care.
If you have experienced sexual misconduct, dating violence, stalking or harassment, it is important to talk to an adult that you trust. This could be a family member, teacher, social worker or anyone else you feel comfortable with. If this behavior is affecting your education or an educational activity please report it to IPS so we can help.
By going to the hospital you can receive a Forensic Medical Exam (often referred to as a “rape kit”) which will help in the collection and preservation of physical evidence as a result of the assault. Many hospitals throughout the state have nurses who are specially trained to provide care and administer the Forensic Medical Exam. You can call a hospital to see if it has a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) available. Indiana has a number of hospitals with specialized programs within them called The Center of Hope. The Center of Hope is dedicated to caring for victims of sexual assault and family violence.
Harassment & Stalking
Teen dating harassment or stalking can take place in person or electronically, such as repeated texting or posting sexual pictures of a partner online without consent. Unhealthy relationships can start early and last a lifetime. Teens often think some behaviors, like teasing and name calling, are a “normal” part of a relationship, but these behaviors can become abusive and develop into serious forms of violence. Many teens do not report these behaviors because they are afraid to tell family and friends. It is important to tell someone you trust so that you can get help.
It is also important to get continued help if you have experienced sexual misconduct or dating violence. IPS can connect you with a youth advocate and/or counselor to guide you and provide information and emotional support. Counseling can help begin the healing process. Your school can help put measures in place to protect you such as class schedule changes, locker reassignments, no contact orders, bus assignment changes and more.
If You Are a Student Who Has Been Accused of Sexual Misconduct, Dating Violence, Stalking or Harassment
If you or someone you know is accused of sexual misconduct, dating violence, or stalking, IPS has resources available for you. It is normal to feel worried, confused, or overwhelmed. It is important to seek out support to help you, especially in cases of a formal investigation by IPS, the Department of Child Protective Services, and/or the police. Please contact an adult you trust at school such as a social worker, counselor, or principal. They can help you through the process.